28 things most girls do not know about men

I just got this part from one of my dearest friend Jessie's blog,

she really get it right and whoever she chooses in the future will definitely be blessed. :p

--Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them!
(oh yeah..you're not 'popular' if you've slept with more than 6 guys..you're a HOE)

--Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

--Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

--Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him

--Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest.

--Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved. (TRUE!!!)

--Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

--Guys get jealous easily. (Partially True)

--Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

--Giving a guy a hanging message like 'You know what?!..uh...nevermind..' would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out. (TRUE!!!)

--Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

--A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

--Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

--Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

--Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

--When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, 'Please come and listen to me.'

--If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

--If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

--When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.

--When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

--Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

--A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

--Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

--Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

--Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

--If you are going to reject a guy, just do it. Don't say they are like a brother or just good friends, it just hurts even more. Tell them that you aren't interested in a relationship and they will respect you.

--Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

--When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

Additional thoughts: ==== the 28 things about a guy above is simply a look into the guy's mind, and it shouldn't act as a beacon of hope for girls out there who are looking for signs that the guy they like are into them as well. Fact is, if a guy is truly into you, he will find some way to let you know. Period.

Back from Swiss and Italy (like 2 weeks ago)

Val and I are back from our trip to Switzerland and Italy. overall the trip was smooth and the weather was managable for us to walk and follow our itinerary.
I think pictures will say more then i can describe them but just to name the places, zurich, luzerne, bern, interlaken, florence (italy), pisa, la spezia, cinque terre, rome, venice and milan.
This trip for me was really interesting as i was on a mission. A mission to ask Val to be my lifelong partner, my companion, my wife.
Well it happened on a hill top of a mountain, surrounded by mountains in interlaken at a place called Klein Scheidegg. really thank God for providing the right weather, His timing is always perfect as we when were about to leave the place, it started to drizzle and the moutains started to be covered by clouds.
The last part of the trip was to attend Damian's Graduation, which was suppose to be the main reason why we are in europe. Interesting ceremony with the principal doing a poker lie, rubbing his nose while telling us the reason for the campus to move.
enough said, here are some pictures :p

Swiss and Italy here I come

Less than 12hrs to my flight to Switzerland with Val. We will be touring swiss follow by italy and back to swiss again.

it is my first time to these 2 countries. Praying for good weather and safety as i heard many many people saying that italy have many pickpockets.

will update with pics and stories of my trip when i am back :p

Day 6!!

Today is my 6th day at IDA. It has been quite ok, knowing alittle of the culture, meeting new people, observing the activities and working habits here. As i am still new and do not know much of the projects or operations, i have been following my colleagues around and i have attended 2 briefings, 1 meeting and 2 talk.

I really want to thank God the view which i prayed for :p All i need to do is to turn around, take a few steps forward and i will see this.

BMW Driving Experience

I registered for BMW 520 Driving Experience and attended the event on thursday morning with Patrick and Gary. We get to try out the new BMW 520 and test it's agility and braking power. Overall, the 520 is quiet, stable and yet still agile.

Me, Gary and Patrick

It is true

For those at work who have heard and those who left and also have heard, i am leaving Ghim Li. I think it should not be a surprise that i am leaving, i have been in GL for 3yrs it's time for me to move on and see more of the corporate world.
Looking back, GL has thought me alot of things and it is where i will always remember where i first stepped into the working world, where I was given the opportunity to learn and lead a team. during my time here, i have made many friends and because of these, it sort of makes me sad that i am leaving.
Well, as much as it contradicts it is true. all the best to all GL staff, work hard!!!

Love

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (New International Version)
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
7 , always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (New Living Translation)
4 Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud
5 or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged.
6 It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.
7 Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (New King James Version)
4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;
5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;
6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;
7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

A Season for Everything

For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven.

My Sound Books arrived!!!

My books arrived and it came in a guni sack looking bag. I bought 2 books from amazon, one called the "The Ultimate Church Sound Operator's Handbook" and the other called "The Ultimate Live Sound Operator's Handbook" both books are written by the same guy called Bill Gibson.

Musselicious!!!

Went to vivo like a month ago with val, my sis, hosea. We went to this restaurant called "The Mussel Guys". We had soup which had a mussel, we had seafood baked rice which had mussels too.




































Of course when you go to a restaurant that name themselves as "The Mussel Guys", you got to try their mussels, which we did. And we found "friends" in the mussels..........

Yes that is a baby crab. Well, we didnt just find one in one mussel but some of the mussels had a baby crab in them. One of the lady boss of the restaurant told us it was the season that the baby crabs were found in the mussels. To me it was the first time i have seen it but it was a sign. A sign that these mussels are fresh and not cultured.
Well, the food we had esp the soup and the mussels were good and i would definitely recommend people to have a try at "The Mussel Guys

My 1st Dell Laptop (Part II)

I got the replacement set and i thought they definitely make sure it would be of better quality and finishing. At first, it was better when they changed the brand of harddisk to eliminate the noise coming from the harddisk.

But one of the most basic things was not done properly, the supports on under the laptop was not balanced!!! So whenever i rest my left palm down on the laptop, it sinks down to touch the table surface. I have already reported to them the issue, waiting again for their resolution. Why oh why did i get this laptop........

My 1st Dell Laptop

I just got a Dell laptop in the office. It is the XPS M1330
It has a Core 2 Duo T7300 processor (2ghz), 2GB RAM, 120GB hdd, 128mb nvidia VGA card, a dvd burner, 13.3" Wide Screen all the other standard features.
It costs about 2600SGD (inclusive of 7% GST). Well, might sound abit expensive but i thought let's give DELL a try............

Guess what, i found the finishing alittle disappointing, maybe it is just my observation skills, i can see the wiring in between the joints of the screen and the keyboard.

And while installing my office softwares, i got my engineer to hear the clicking sound that i was hearing from the hdd in the laptop, he confirmed it was not usual and i decided to contact the technical support who were very friendly and helpful. At first i was given asked if they could send an engineer down to check and confirm on the unsual clicking sound and to replace on the spot the hdd but as i continue to tell them about the clicking sound, the technical support guy asked if there is any damage on the box, which upon my checking there was. I was then given another choice and that was to escalate for a replacement of the entire laptop.
hmmmmmmm of course i decided to take the second option and just take it that the laptop is faulty due to mishandling :p. Even now with the laptop already shutdown and charging, there is still electrical sound coming from the laptop *scary*

I will update more whether i get a replacement. BTW, the laptop is only 2days old.

One of the best

Saw this on Felix's blog one of my fav songs to date.

Munchy Donuts!!!

Last week had cravings for chocolate coated donuts. Decided to get some for myself and the office colleagues. Yummy!!!

Love is the Greatest

1 Corinthians 13

Love Is the Greatest

1 If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
2 If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love others, I would be nothing.
3 If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it;^[a] but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing.
4 Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud
5 or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged.
6 It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.
7 Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
8 Prophecy and speaking in unknown languages^[b] and special knowledge will become useless. But love will last forever!
9 Now our knowledge is partial and incomplete, and even the gift of prophecy reveals only part of the whole picture!
10 But when full understanding comes, these partial things will become useless.
11 When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things. 12 Now we see things imperfectly as in a cloudy mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity.^[c] All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely.
13 Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.

New Living Translation Bible

Zhng my Vios.

This is funny man.......

Financial Freedom

Most of you have heard of me saying i do not have enough money or not earning enough. Well few weeks ago, a guy from Crown Financial Ministries spoke about finances entitled "Money, a matter of Your Heart" and he said something that really struck me on the part of plan your spending, he said;

"Financial freedom is not determined by how much you make. It is determined by how you spend what you make"

When i heard it, i reflected on my spending and have always wondered where i spend my money, how come at the end of the month it is always super stretched. So i decided to keep track of all my accounts including drink, sweets, magazine etc etc. Val has gladly volunteered to help me keep track so i just daily "report" to her what i have spent.

So we will see at the end of the month how i have faired.

Bored

I need to find something more interesting to do in the office.......yawn

40 Day Fast - Praise Him or else......

Go Deep, Look Far, Ask Big

The future is not a gamble. The future is ours to make. God with us. God through us. The shape of things to come rests in the hands of a praying church! The language of prayer is a language of love. Love God, Love Singapore. Love always hopes. Love always perseveres. Always pray. Never give up.

Love Singapore