when i was in secondary school, a girl told me she was tired of the relationship and left me. Since then i have been paranoid when a girl tells me that she is tired about something. (**Val is not tired of the relationship, just to make it clear**)
anyway alot of people have advise me to enjoy the experience of doing our wedding preparation. but it seems to be full of nerve racking experiences and anxiety. Be it with val or family. Thinking about it i guess, everyone is doing it their way and their time on the same item? I think wedding preparation is a training time for teamwork and cooperation and a time to throwaway the individualistic / self centered nature of each person, i guess it is about doing things together, helping one another out(maybe helping to do things the person might have forgotten or just helping when the person is busy). Then again it is also a time for each person to be more sensitive in acting AND reacting, it is not always the reactor that is at fault. My science teacher once told me this "for every action there is a reaction". So before we respond or say something when an issue happens, we got to think and consider the other person's feelings.
With one month and 1 week left, clashes between parties seem to grow more frequent and my "man zhang" character might have make it worst. So val and i had a interesting clash that has not resolved and we identified that this prep process is not going on happily. I am wondering how can we improve on it and feel happy on the 11th April 2009. Well, I dont have an answer neither does val. I guess we will have to submit it to God and really be SERIOUS about making the relationship right with God's help and not our own way or thinking.
When we purchased our nikon d90, it came with a Lowepro Rezo 180 AW camera bag
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